Best ways to prevent tearing in birth – Part 1
Just so you know, pregnancy hormones cause the tissues of your cervix and perineum become extremely thick and elastic. This is a good thing. To prevent tearing or an episiotomy during birth, you’ve got to encourage that elasticity as much as you can. Of course, as you near birth, your cervix will efface (thin) but it will retain the elasticity you worked on during the pregnancy.
One: Good nutrition and hydration are vital. Make sure you get plenty of protein and Vitamins E (at least 1,000 mg per day) and C. Nuts and seeds, cold-pressed oils, and all types of beans are good to keep your skin healthy and elastic. Food sources of Vitamin E are: Wheat germ, sunflower seeds, almonds, pecans, safflower oil, peanuts, corn oil, soybean oil, and lobster. Blueberries, cherries, citrus fruits, pears, grapes, cabbage, legumes, plums, and onions are good, too.
Two: Prenatal exercise including yoga and Kegels. It is great for circulation, which keeps tissues elastic. A Kegel is the name of a pelvic floor exercise, named after Dr. Kegel who laid claim to the benefits of the exercise. These muscles, attached to the pelvic bone, act like a hammock, supporting your pelvic organs. Studies suggest that we shoud do about 200 Kegels a day. There are many variations of the exercise. An alternative is the

We know we should be careful about what we eat and drink, but did you ever wonder about what you put on your face and body? Be it a dab or a slather, what is safe for you and your baby? Your skin, of course, is the largest organ. It is porous and efficiently absorbs what we put on it into our bloodstream.
It’s interesting to me how many women, it seems, don’t really plan on preparing physically for birth. As an average Jane, you wouldn’t wake up and say, “I’m going to run a marathon today.” Even if you plan on an epidural or a C-section, your body needs to be in good shape. The good news is that it doesn’t mean sweatin’ to the oldies.
my husband on occasion would join me. I was driven to follow Shiva, the first trimester girl, for as long as possible, while he could only follow Poppy, the third trimester girl. What a sight - especially when it came to the Kegel exercises (see below). I say it’s those loose ligaments that helped me. I am usually the one who’s lagging or using all the props otherwise. I recommend doing yoga at least 3 times a week, for 30 mins. (or in two 15 min. increments). I like to set my goals within an easy range so I feel better when I exceed my goal, but that’s me. By “doing” I mean: following a DVD, taking a prenatal yoga class, or even just following the exercises below. 
